You Sent an Email to the Wrong Person. Now What? - Tessian My boss wanted to press charges, but his business partner didnt, so they just fired him. When you are genuinely accept the error, analyze why you made it and address how to alter yourself to not be vulnerable to this kind of mistake again, it will naturally come across when you talk about it in interviews because youll be genuine and not trying to find a strategic angle and that genuine quality will land well with other mature professionals who have made their own mistakes. And then THAT person got so excited that they just had to tell someone Each person thinks theyre only telling one other person, and that they can trust that person. That was not an enjoyable situation at all. Please keep reflecting on this. Its not great, but some breaches really are that serious, and employers cant always be like the library giving amnesty for late fees if people bring the books back. Including their reputation being damaged. Maybe you get a 2nd chance IF you were contrite enough and blamed your excitement at the new teapot program. quite a lot of people are going to feel as though youre making them an accomplice in your bad behavior. In fact, think of it this way: you put your journalist friend in a situation where she was potentially sitting on a scoop but she actually kept mum to protect you. A non-disclosure agreement (often referred to as a confidentiality agreement), is a legally-binding contract which governs the sharing of information between people or organizations and sets limits on the use of the information. Just because a story wasnt published about it doesnt mean it wasnt discussed internally among coworkers. Don't worry, you're not alone. The same goes for ratting out. It was bad. Not generational, just a young person thing. Hard disagree. Even if you trust her 100%, she is still too high risk. The information was work i was working on at the moment and I emailed it as I needed to do work on my personal laptop ; I couldn't take my work station away whilst on extended leave overseas. Embarrassing or inappropriate communications sent via company email can damage professional credibility, reputations, and careers. If you had the same role in a public company, you could have have been fired because of regulations preventing insider trading. Yeah, I agree. Im not going to tell them about it, unless it actually falls out that I end up being the person who is put in charge of telling them their thing is done. I would feel terrible about it, definitely, and probably think about it for a while after, but ultimately, Id need to prioritize my family and act in a way that would protect my job/salary/health insurance so I could continue to provide for my them. Take full responsibility. You really think a lawyer would publicly (extremely publicly) admit to doing something he hadnt done, for which he was sanctioned and fined by regulators, and permanently ruin his own reputation in the process? OP will also want to consider not focusing her career path on jobs that require a security clearance for classified information. I think that WAS her second chance, and I think something she said at the meetings (perhaps about how the problem is the coworker for being a rat) blew that second chance. The z department is not allocating the staff they promised. Yes you can. 2. You didn't accidentally email the material to yourself, you did it on purpose. Maybe consider a career in advertising, where its your job to tell people about exciting things. I recall a year or so into this administration at least a couple federal departments making A Big Deal out of leaks because it seemed like every other story (usually negative) was quoting an anonymous source sharing sensitive information they werent authorized to release. It was bananas. The company I work for uses keyloggers and text scanners on our computers to catch these kinds of issues. The Families First Coronavirus Response Act now requires employers to give up to two weeks of paid sick time if you get the coronavirus or were told to quarantine by a doctor. Same here! People leak or share things to journalists they know all the time, with agreements by those journalists on how to share it. You are right. While I agree that this needs to be explained in the right way. But your processing of it has to be at one step removed. Of course. the coworker probably was obligated to report it If Jane knows, then it cant be too bad.. No! Yeah the world just being what it is, if youre this bad at keeping secrets, youre gonna get burned by it pretty quick. Agreed. Having worked in communications and journalism for the past 15 years, I think this ishonestly really bad. If you werent human, you wouldnt make mistakes. Well its possible your coworker just had it out for you, but it sounds more likely that she genuinely misunderstood or that she understood perfectly but thought leaking info to a journalist friend was serious enough to report and then it was your boss who misunderstood the details. Have you learned from your mistake? The LW actually had a responsibility to keep the info confidential, and the friend doesnt. Yeah, seconding this. My employer lost a lawsuit where they had been sued for violating open records and meetings laws. I think the fact finding phone call cleared that up, otherwise OP would have said so? Sure, its not going to be easy, but being honest and upfront will serve them a whole lot better than a potential employer finding out from a different source (and its not unlikely that they will find out). Before I hired you, Id want to know you were familiar with and in agreement with our ethical code, which talks a lot about protecting our clients. Send the attachment in a follow-up email and, in the future, attach the document before you even begin writing your email. Sometimes people screw up and they still really need their jobs. Forgetting to attach a mentioned attachment is common, but still embarrassing. I had the same thoughtthat was very unwise. I get that youre trying to take responsibility here, but your Im still pretty upset that I had no second chance, I suppose suggests to me you still have a long way to go toward recognizing and acknowledging the seriousness of what happened. Yes! I want to encourage you to drill deeper on something you said in your letter: I did feel guilty. That's why employers ask employees to sign technology use policies, as it appears yours has - to ensure the employee is aware of policy. She knew about a leak and didnt say anything, who knows what else she is helping to hide, My boss, in a well meaning way and to correct some weird barriers previously put in place by the person before him, told me openly that if Big Boss [aka the owner] asks you anything, just answer him, its all good, you dont need to filter things through me or anything., And I just tilted my head and laughed at him saying Even if you told me differently, I would tell him whatever he wants to know. Which given our relationship he just giggled and responded with of course and thats the way it should be.. My adviser listened to what was going on and was like we have to tell. 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The communications person from the Marine Band was immediately fired when it was discovered she had leaked this information. A major penalty for breach of confidentiality is termination of employment. This has to be, and often is, done formally, with agreements to give something secret in advance so the journalist can prep a story for later, when its OK to share. I mean, yeah, absolutely! While I was working there, I started dating an entertainment journalist who then covered some Marvel projects, and there were definitely things that happened at work which I did not share with him because of my NDA. An employer of mine got a FOIA request where they asked for every email wed sent to anyone from any regulatory agency. It was a really bad decision on my part and I have learned a lot from the experience. Its sounds like you are pretty young and people tend to be a slightly more forgiving when you are young a make a mistake like this as long as you take ownership of it. According to Tessian research, over half (58%) of employees say they've sent an email to the wrong person. Ive only had a very general idea of what my husband does since 2002, because he cant tell me. What happened is reputation-ruining for such jobs so re-assessing what is realistic in terms of job expectations after this is important to moving on successfully Dec. 17, 2009 -- You probably don't think twice about sending personal messages through your work e-mail. Whose to say OP isnt right that the coworker had it out for her? Browse other questions tagged, Start here for a quick overview of the site, Detailed answers to any questions you might have, Discuss the workings and policies of this site. and sent to multiple people (!!)? Maybe you let them know more then they should even without meaning too? LW doesnt seem defensive at all here, and its okay to feel upset while still taking ownership of their actions. This is a solvable problem. I think the wider point is that anyone can make that mistake at any age, and speculating about this part of it is irrelevant and not helpful. No, no, no, no, no. But, its important for an employer to know that you understand the need for reporting and would report things yourself if needed. Your coworker was probably legally obligated to report this, and even is she wasnt this is the type of breach that reasonable people WILL report. This will suck for a long time writing this post has made me feel anxious thinking about my own lapses and consequences from years ago but it all works out in the end. It will also help you to not repeat the mistake in the future. In most reporting policies i am aware of it would be considered tipping off and get the person reporting in trouble. Ideally. Life is full of these weird potholes we find ourselves in at times. But unfortunately, the rules of your job are such that you justcant. Like, how did HR and OPs boss come to the conclusion that this information was spread through Slack (!) If we receive confidential information, there are very specific and non-flexible procedures we have to follow to handle those documents/information. When they took the only course of action they could have taken and still kept their job and notified your employer of your actions, you became defensive of your actions. If OP had confessed to their manager, it would make sense for the manager to say, I have to report this to such-and-such, but the coworker was right not to warn OP. I remind people about once a year that not only can I not look up their medical info on my own, I cant look it up even if they ask me to, and I get in even more trouble if I look up my own medical info. Im a journalist and Id concur and depending on how sensitive/important the information was, and what a big deal it was when it did break, you might have put your friend in a tough spot at her job by giving her a news tip she couldnt pursue or share with her colleagues. She already got that advice from Alison. This is a tough lesson to learn. my boss read my Skype conversations, parental involvement with employees under 18, and more, my manager and coworker are secretly dating, boss will never give exceeds expectations because he has high standards, and more, update: I supervise a manager who falsified an employee write-up but I dont think she should be fired, stolen sandwiches, disgusting fridges, dish-washing drama: lets talk about office kitchen mayhem, interviewer scolded me for my outfit, job requires an oath of allegiance, and more, update: a DNA test revealed the CEO is my half brother and hes freaking out, my entry-level employee gave me a bunch of off-base criticism. How risky is sending a sensitive work email to the wrong person? Phrase it as a serious learning point, because you sure as hell aren't going to do it again after getting fired. I worked for a federal government contractor and we were awaiting news of whether we were getting a contract renewal. The person is trying to make someone else feel bad about their own transgressions. Which is so far beyond the truth Im honestly wondering if this coworker had it out for me the whole time. update: is my future manager a bigoted jerk? never actually say the words Gross Misconduct. How did you talk to your boss about the slack channel full of journalists? Were you able to correct the factual mistake in context, and what phrasing did you use? Or does it only matter that I broke a rule?, For #1, Youre certainly allowed to bring up anything you want in an interview, the question you should really be asking is, Will it help or hurt my candidacy to bring this up?. If OP had never confided in any coworker about what she had done, it would still not be blind-siding to be fired for it. Thats totally true, and when I worked for state government release of confidential information would have been grounds for immediate termination, but Alison is the only one who calls it confidential, OP calls it non-public. Goes a long way to being the right way to describe this. The only thing an employer may not do is make employment decisions based upon you being a member of a protected class. We received a staff email that shared that they were going to release some BIG news about positive new office changes and remodeling and that there was going to be a BIG press conference in 2 days at our office with a lot of high-up political bigwigs and asked everyone to show up for support. What is the correct way to screw wall and ceiling drywalls? In fact, the coworker probably was obligated to report it anyway since she wasnt sure about the extent of the breach. Oh, thats a risky tack for OP to take if they want to stay in their field. my boss accidentally sent me a message complaining about me It doesnt matter if theyd trust this person with their firstborn child. Unauthorized Emails: The Risks of Sending Data to Your Personal Email Accounts. I sent confidential documents to someone by accident via email - Google Good luck! Shouldnt she be in trouble too? and there she would be, going down with you. In addition to 100% needing to own it when asked about it, I think OP may also benefit from focusing the job search on jobs that dont involve handling sensitive or high profile information. Identify the cause of the information leak. There is no other guarantee, and yet people count on it. But it sounds like it doesnt really matter that HR jumbled the details because neither was a permitted thing to do anyway. I am in this place when I read OPs response. The first person needs to understand that most of the time, you arent entitled to negotiate a yes, because the answer is no. She could have been a secretary or a spy; no one knows because she went to her grave never telling anyone, not even her husband. This was more or less what I was thinking. I gossip too much, including at work. In a couple of hours, the news agencies were calling the federal government, to verify the news. They might try to use silence to get you to say more. We let him go for incredibly poor judgmentlike putting me as a reference, for example.. Even innocuous-sounding information, like the name of a database, can be a huge security risk. ), Because honestly, the more I thought about this letter as I read it, the more uncomfortable I got, too. Sometimes I need to talk about what Ive heard or am excited about something I did which made a significant improvement to someones life, but I have to talk about that in a way that doesnt risk identifying the person at all. And in fact, NOT getting that second chance with them might mean that you take it more seriously and handle the next relationship in a trustworthy manner. It could also end poorly if the employer actually sees a job opening posted for the position the LW claims was eliminated. Based on it happening before GSA was born, this most likely happened on a land line. I strongly disagree with this. Something LW has not seemed to understand: the fact that you worked for a governmental agency is not the issue, the fact that you leaked info early is. It can take down evil people who mean to do others harm. And Im happy to report that I have never shared that news (still remember it bcs this was so hard that first time!). In a professional context, close friendships and personal trust arent always as ironclad as they can be in personal relationships, particularly when it comes to security and confidentiality. 4. Yeah, this is a big part of it. 1. This reminds me of how Northwestern Hospital had to fire 50 employees back in March for violating HIPAA by accessing Jussie Smolletts medical records. If there was no record, then there is no possible sanction under FOIA or sunshine law (because that only pertains to records). It being Silicon Valley, not only was the phone found, it was immediately identified for what it was. Definitely anti-climactic to actually know at this point! If you cant maintain confidentiality, you can work elsewhere. Email Sent in Error? What CFOs Should Do Next - Finance Monthly Im sure the OP will find a new job. Also in any governmental job or any job governed by many laws and regulations (such as medicine, law, dentistry, etc) they are laws and compliance regulations in place that must be abided by and every employee had to sign such an agreement usually yearly but at least upon hiring. In my first job out of college in the insurance industry I reinstated someones coverage without verifying that they had had no claims in the lapsed period they immediately called claims and filed a $40,000 claim. I feel LWs pain. I do have to wonder if the hospital failed to educate its employees on how freaking serious that kind of breach was, although Id still put the failure on the feet of the violators. It might possibly be seen as less bad that the information shared was intended to be made public anyway, as opposed to it being information that wasnt ever supposed to get out. It also wasnt illegal to share it, because it was about a program or something that has now publicly been announced, so this doesnt even fall under the criminal aspect brought up in the original comment. If you want to work in comms, you need to be crystal clear that the TIMING of disclosure is a crucial issue. Some offenses are serious enough that a single incident is enough to fire someone. I think it helps that you told your coworker. This mixed with the coworkers inflated story, I would be more than annoyed by this coworker too. Cut to a couple hours later, and Im called into my bosss office because she has heard that I leaked this information to a SLACK CHANNEL FULL OF JOURNALISTS.

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